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Kristi I miss you - m4w (Too Far Away) 28yr

2009-11-10T02:44:33-05:00

I wanted so many times to tell you 'I love you' and now you are so far away... I miss you so much, your sweet smile keeps me company but it's not enough. If I were to have told you how I felt, that I didn't want you to leave, would things have been different? I just want you to know, you are the one that got away, and I let you leave. I didn't want you to go, and I regret never telling you that. You once asked me when the last time I cried was, told me you couldn't even imagine it. I told you I couldn't remember, that was not true. The last time I cried was when you got married. When you said goodbye that day you didn't know why I was so sad, I was trying to let you go. I couldn't and I still can't.

Waffle House on Hull Street - w4m (Midlothian) 22yr

2009-11-10T02:11:04-05:00

To the guy who dropped off the paper napkin rose at our table - thanks. It's now on my desk. And you're hot. The end.

VCU kids know how to party! - m4w (The Fan) 20yr

2009-11-10T01:52:16-05:00

I wrote you this poem;

Laying on the floor in a pool of blood and cum
My demons lay beside as I kiss them one by one

Richmond Zine fest - m4w (RIC) 20yr

2009-11-10T01:47:55-05:00

Will you be my muse? I met you at the Richmond zine fest, this weekend. Actually it was about 57 hours and 32 minutes since I met you. I need a muse like woah. I haven't been able to focus on my writing in days and i'm getting behind.

Blond girl with black pants and a black top - m4w (Seigel gym (vcu)) 24yr

2009-11-10T01:16:34-05:00

hi,
I walked to the gym tonight thinking its just another training day, man was I wrong!!! I saw you in the gym while you were running and then you went to do some abs...trust me you don't have to because you look perfect and amazing. Your blond hair had blinded my eyes, the way you had it in a pony tail just made your face even more angel like to look at. We locked eyes a few times and at the end before you went out to work your abs again near the front desk I held the door for you, I was trying to go out to talk to you. I lost focus on my training and the only thing I wanted was to talk to you. I went out to drink some water and walked towards the front desk but with no luck :( I went down to the stairs and started to look at my phone just so that I come across you and maybe get your attention. you got on the phone near the front desk as we were looking at each other, just when I thought this was the right time for me to come and say hi you walked out....
I have to say that you are the MOST BEAUTIFUL thing I have ever seen in my life, even on TV. I had to leave the gym because after you left you took something with you and I lost my well to keep training. If there is anything in this world that I wish for me to see you again, I don't get second chances but I am working and hoping for one, I want to talk to you and ask you to get a cup of coffee or a drink...the last thing I expected today was for this to happen, I came from out of town today and went to the gym and had a long day and the only thing I remember is you. I don't know if you look at these posts or if you have a boyfriend or what but all that dose not matter because it would not be a problem for me to get rejected by you, as long as I hear your voice and see a pretty smile on your godly face.

If there is faith or a small piece of hope in this world you would see this or I would see you in the gym again. I never saw you there before, maybe you come early in the day because I come late at night. I want you to know that you took something from me and made my heart beat like a teenager who met a girl for the first time. I know this is a long post but I want you to know that you have a power to put a smile on a person's face and make them wonder what is it that could create something that looks like you. You are truly one of a kind.

If anybody knows who I am talking about please let her know, I got to take back what she has taken a way from me, I want to see her.
I will keep hoping, regretting my chance and wishing..................

Ps; you had yellow shorts under you sweat pants....if that makes it easier to tell,

All the best,

A guy at the gym

its my birthday - m4w (richmond) 27yr

2009-11-10T00:35:08-05:00

miss you more than you know miss Q.........

since when is wwc straight edge? (fist city)

2009-11-10T00:18:38-05:00

every member i ever met was fucked up when i met them.

RE:RE: WORLD WAR CREW (WWC4LIFE) 17yr

2009-11-09T23:52:20-05:00

YO DIS IS C0RY FROM WWC RVA SET. YALL BITCHES CAN MAKE LIKE A TREE AND FUCK OFF!!!! EDGE FOR LIFE BITCHES!!!! IF WE C U DRINKIN, SMOKIN, COMPOSING DRUGS OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT;NATURE, WE WILL BEAT UR FRIGGEN ASSES!!!!!!!!!!!!! WWC4LYFE MOTHERFUCKERS!!! WE DONT CARE IF UR BLAK, WHITE, YELLOW, BROWN, RED, OR A JEW, WE'LL BEAT UR ASS NE DAY OF DA FUKN WEEK. (XCEPT 4 SUNDAY, WE IN THE SET BELIEVE IN ONE AND ONLY GOD, AND THATS GOD, SO GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE WITH UR FUKN BUDDA BELLIES, RAVI SHANKALLAHS AND ALL THAT FAGGOT SHIT) SO WHAT IF SOME OF US LIKE TO HAVE SOME NON-ALCOHOLIC/DRUG INDUCED FUN WITH YA BOIS EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE (IF U NO WAT IM SAYIN{IT AIN'T GAY IF U THINKIN ABOUT UR SET WHILE YOU DOIN IT.}) BIG L REST IN PEACE.
PS: MY BOY ERNIE IS A FUCKING EXPERT COMPUTER HACKER AND HE'S GOING TO FIND U FUCKERS TALKING SHIT AND FUCKING KICK YOU IN THE TEETH.
PIC: MY BOY TREVORS NEW TAT. IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, FUCK OFF YOU FUCKERS, YOU'LL BE SEEING THAT TAT WHILE MY BOY KICKS IN YOUR FUCKING JAW FOR MAKING YOUR BODIES AND MINDS UNPURE. ITS NOT UR CHOICE WUT U DO WITH UR BODIES, ITS ME, TREVOR, AND ALL MY OTHER BOY'S CHOICE. THE ONLY FUCKER WE ANSWER TO IS:
~~~*~~~J~E~S~U~S**C~H~R~I~S~T~~~*~~~

Helen's

2009-11-09T23:50:17-05:00

Is everyone finished with this yet? If not, can it move to rants and raves? This has surpassed a missed connection. Have you eaten the grits at Helen's? If not, save the bullshit until you have, then reevaluate whether you'll go back.

RE: Taking drinks at Helens (Richmond)

2009-11-09T23:18:44-05:00

Hey dipshit, go read the Code of VA, bars cannot serve you beyond 2 a.m. and you cannot have a drink in your hand beyond 2 a.m. It's the law. Most bars have their clocks set 15 minutes fast so it may not be 2 to you, but it's 2 to them. That 15 minutes is a buffer just in case they're arguing with some idiot too close to 2 because that person thinks they are entitled to break the law even though they paid and tipped for their precious drink. Bars can and do get in trouble for people drinking after 2. That's the way it is, suck it up and shut the fuck up.

You spewed:

The law says bars can't SERVE drinks after 2 a.m. It doesn't say anything about not being able to finish drinking your drink after 2 a.m.
When I saw the bartender taking people's drinks it wasn't even 2 a.m. yet.

You were wearing shorts and said you were cold - m4w

2009-11-09T23:10:11-05:00

I'd keep you warm girl, I'm just sayin'

Re: question for the decent females

2009-11-09T21:20:44-05:00

If you love someone, you love them, and it gives you the courage to do crazy things like make commitments, change your life, overcome your fears, etc. If they were "too scared" by their feelings, it wasn't really love. I'm sure they meant well when they fed you this line of crap, but they were probably "too scared" to admit they were shallow wenches and they thought rejection sounded better this way. Let it go. In this case, it truly is not about you, it's about THEM. There ARE normal girls in the world, and I wish you the very best in finding one.

PS Getting dumped, however, has always and will always suck the big one, no matter the excuse.

You make me crazy A.M.M. - w4m (foolishly waiting)

2009-11-09T21:03:00-05:00

I don't eat, I don't sleep. I think about you all the time. You'll be leaving town in a few weeks and I feel like I have to cram a lifetime of you in that span and you won't let me in. I wonder if you think I'm ugly or desperate or old or just pathetic. I wonder if you think I was just out for a few casual fucks. I wasn't. When I'm with you, you are so straightforward and I really believe we have a good time together. But then you ignore me. Christ, I guess I AM pathetic. I've never cried as much over anyone in my life as I've cried over you. If you just told me to go away at least I'd have closure. As it is, I agonize and mourn because I know you don't care and then, wham, you're consuming me again and it's all good. Why would I play mind games with you? you asked me. How the fuck would I know? But you are, dammit. Help me out here, and either SHOW ME you care or change your tune and TELL ME you don't.

I bumped into your purse - w4w (outside the VCU commons) 22yr

2009-11-09T20:46:49-05:00

I was walking along the sidewalk and you stopped to talk to your friend about her cell phone. You turned around and stopped right in front of me, in the flow of traffic. I bumped into your purse which greatly offended you. You said "Girllll, eksyooooose you". I didn't say anything, I kept walking. I didn't know why you were mad at me when you stopped suddenly in front of me. You continued jeering at me. "I know she heard me, she keep on walkin' anyway," should ring a bell.

You need to learn some manners, that is all I am saying.

Dark haired beauty, all by herself (VCU)

2009-11-09T20:21:33-05:00

I used to see you all the time at Siegel, working out for hours at a time. I've run into you twice outside of the gym.This past Saturday night/Sunday morning around 1am you were crossing at Harrison and Main by yourself. Straight dark hair flowing, badass leather jacket on, messenger bag swinging by your side. Ironically, I saw you the night before at First Friday. Turquoise dress I believe with a lavish necklace on, yet again by your lonesome. Let me keep you company mysterious lady..

Helen's (awful establishment)

2009-11-09T20:19:42-05:00

Regardless of whether or not she took people's drinks too early, the bartender at Helen's is excessively cold, rude, and inconsiderate, behaves in a childish manner, and has no idea how to barkeep properly or how to interact with costumers in a way that will keep them coming back. I would rather go to motherfuckin Buddy's than Helen's just because the bartender at the latter location is so goddamn rude. When I'm going out, I don't ask for much, I don't even care if you talk to me or not, just don't be a callous bitch and I'll come back to your bar. Going out to drink is supposed to be an amicable and enjoyable experience for those being served and for the servers, and for that reason I am not the least bit surprised that no one I know enjoys going to Helen's.

blond Jackie O: that panda-bear backpack... - w4w (crossroads - fan)

2009-11-09T19:42:27-05:00

I have a serious girl crush on you: you're gorgeous, great style, and seem sweet as a cupcake!

cabell library about 645 - m4w (2nd floor)

2009-11-09T19:40:30-05:00

so i was sitting by myself, on the far side of the second floor, by the books that all look the same, trying to get my study on and then you came about 20 minutes before i left. you sat at a table right across from me, doing stuff on your laptop. i saw you glancing my way on several occasions. remember me? sup?

RE: Taking drinks at Helens

2009-11-09T19:20:29-05:00

I'm a female, shit lips.
The law says bars can't SERVE drinks after 2 a.m. It doesn't say anything about not being able to finish drinking your drink after 2 a.m.
When I saw the bartender taking people's drinks it wasn't even 2 a.m. yet.
So yes, there will not be any taking away of a drink that I paid for and tipped generously for. When was the last time you were in a restaurant and someone took your food away before you finished because it was too close to closing time? You would NOT just sit there and let it happen.
As I said, I don't go to Helen's anymore to avoid this sort of thing happening.
I've never heard of such ridiculousness in any other bar. Fuck Helens and fuck you too if you think that is acceptable behavior for a place of business.

SEXY black guy on HD-Mon 11/9 - w4m (Midlo Turnpike)

2009-11-09T19:06:15-05:00

You were on a HD going toward city. We were near WaWa and JW Hospial. We spoke as you passed. You had on long sleeve white tee with graphics and shorty helment and goggles. Think HD had some copper type orange on it.
I was in Blue car. What kind? Would like to know more, have a drink, a coffee, some lunch? Tell me about me. It was between 3 and 4 I think. I had to hit 288, you headed toward Chippenham. Intersested??????????

Pretty girl at Cork & Keg (again). - m4w (Henrico) 22yr

2009-11-09T18:55:25-05:00

I went in today with the intentions of leaving with at least your name. I failed miserably.

Maybe next time I'll just keep my eyes closed so that I can think after glancing at you.

Cheers to a pretty woman.

taking drinks at helen's - m4w (the fan) 26yr

2009-11-09T18:27:19-05:00

you would spit in her face if she took your drink? wow what a big man. She took your drink because it is that time of the night where you have to go home. You may think you're special and the ABC laws don't apply to you but you are not so get over yourself.

Allison on stuart by fox - m4w (fan)

2009-11-09T17:47:25-05:00

you have gotten my soccer ball twice now and yes the second time was on purpose. I would love to talk to you more. Any possibility?

Re: RE: WORLD WAR CREW - w4m

2009-11-09T17:46:49-05:00

Hahahaha oh man you guys are acutally still around? I thought you loser sXe kids grew up and realized breaking into parties, smashing up people's stuff, and beating the shit out of random people was actually pretty damn stupid. See, once the FBI listed the WWC as a legitimate gang I simply assumed they all realized just how idiotic what they were doing was. Apparently not.

So dear WWC,

please grow up.

love,
RVA

Jarhead trying on shoes at Ross

2009-11-09T17:18:27-05:00

Your jeans fit your sexy body so perfectly. Your walk was so arousing I wanted to follow you around for the rest of the day. I nearly seeded my pants watching you squat and crouch and bend over in the shoe section. I even caught a glimpse of your sweet crack. Thanks for giving me a little juice in the middle of the afternoon.

re: world war crew - m4w

2009-11-09T17:16:02-05:00

world war crew is from the streets? hahahahaha. suburban nerds. what a fucking joke.

Re: if you ever see this - w4w (Rva) 28yr

2009-11-09T17:05:26-05:00

Our passion was a bit too much. "an overflow of good converts to bad". I quoted him bc I know he is your favorite... If you ever see this...

WWC- ROFL liKe Wow I caNt ConTRol My cAps LOCk

2009-11-09T16:55:30-05:00

Idiot.

I need a woman (Chesterfield) 46yr

2009-11-09T16:36:05-05:00

I am very lonley I want a woman to live with

RE: WORLD WAR CREW - w4m (RICHTOWN) 123yr

2009-11-09T15:49:26-05:00

FuCK All The H8ers.. MuCh LoVe To EvERy 1 thaT has WW ResPekt aNd LoVe. WhEn pPl is shiNing Bitch Niggas jUst b JeAlous. KEep griNdin yall and DonT let tHe h8erS or Police geT cha doWn. If U talkin oN Craigs steP to them In the stR33ts . Real knoWs real aNd yall Are whats Up.

Red haired Goddess of Grace st - m4w (Richmond VA) 22yr

2009-11-09T15:16:31-05:00

We walked past each other on this beautiful november sunday. I commented on how beautiful your hair is. It was just as red as the leafs in the trees. We introduced ourselves to each other and that was it, we continued on but I haven't been able to get you out of my mind since. I sat outside sketching for hours in hopes you might walk by me again. I would love to have lunch and get to know you better.

That's the right first letter - m4w

2009-11-09T15:15:14-05:00

Doesn't really narrow it down, though. Half the people I know have the same first initial.

I don't know who you are, and I don't expect to hear from the subject of the post.

motorcycle - m4w (vcu) 29yr

2009-11-09T15:13:53-05:00

i shall u at vcu. u were on the sidewalk waiting to cross the street. i was on my motorcycle
we shall each other u were wearing glasses and u took them off and wavied to me.
u had a black shirt on. hope to hear from u

RE: The Vault. . . Sat night - w4m - 23 (Vault/Bank) - w4m

2009-11-09T14:28:32-05:00

Thank god someone else noticed. U of R gave shame to white people. You all suck at dancing and me and my friends had tons of fun joking you and your sweater vests all night. Thanks for some entertainment, don't come back.

In the whirlpool late this morning - m4m (Richmond) 65yr

2009-11-09T14:16:43-05:00

You and I were in the whirlpool together late this morning. You told me that you and your family had recently joined the facility. I complimented you on your nice looks, and you thanked me. Contact me if you see this.

Re: if you ever see this (Rva) 28yr

2009-11-09T14:14:05-05:00

I feel the same way... Our passion was a bit too much. "an overflow of good converts to bad". I quoted him bc I know he is your favorite... If you ever see this...

Silver Fox on Sunday - m4m (Short Pump Town Cntr) 38yr

2009-11-09T14:05:48-05:00

I was out shopping with a friend Sunday and walked by you a couple of times. You are really hot. Would love to see more.....

RE: If you ever see this - w4w (rva)

2009-11-09T14:00:39-05:00

What a load of crap that is...if this is who I think it is then you should know by now that love is not our strong suit. I know we are meant to be...but most likely that will never happen, because of YOU! God, I miss you're lips.

looking for kimberley frm the oyserfest - m4w (oyserfeat) 43yr

2009-11-09T13:57:51-05:00

this is a long shot we meet at mojos

Cary St & BOA Building DT (Downtown RIC) 29yr

2009-11-09T13:54:16-05:00

You were parked in a car talking to a guy who handed you a package around 12:30pm today. I was walking down the steps toward Cary St. You sang a song and seemed like an outgoing and fun person. If you are interested in a cup of coffee or something send me an e-mail ... let me know what song you sang so I can know it's really you.

once a week sign in - w4m

2009-11-09T13:48:29-05:00

You only sign in 1x a week anymore bc you have a girlfriend now. i had a hard time with your picture. glad you changed it. I have to let you go to some degree but your still in my mind, still waiting until 1 day.

On 7 - m4m (Richmond)

2009-11-09T13:45:45-05:00

Today you told me not here. Where then? It might be fun to play.
My legs over your shoulders seems to feel right.

Ivori at Verizon on Broad st. - m4w (RVA) 20yr

2009-11-09T13:37:25-05:00

You were sitting next to me at Verizon waiting to be helped. Me and my friend were talking about our band and I kept playing with the chair. You were so damn cute, shouldve asked for your number.

I told you I liked your pants outside the library - m4w (VCU Library) 25yr

2009-11-09T13:16:29-05:00

I told you I liked your pants as you were walking into the the library with your tall friend and you looked kinda mad/embarrassed. Didnt mean to come off as a dick but I thought you were damn sexy and needed to say something!

Gas Station by Glory Days - m4w (West End) 37yr

2009-11-09T12:54:44-05:00

You were just finishing pumping gas. Driving a minivan. I just pulled in. We seemed to want to stare at each other a lot.

re:you were sitting - m4w 28yr

2009-11-09T12:52:51-05:00

This is why I can't stand women long enough to connect with one that's worth a shit.. they're attracted to things like SHOES and TATTOOS.

Get the fuck real you shallow idiots.

you were sitting at the emergency kit booth - w4m (short pump mall) 29yr

2009-11-09T12:47:11-05:00

I first saw you walking by crate and barrel at the short pump mall over the weekend. The shine off of your gleaming white cross trainers immediately caught my eye. I thought to myself, "if only that non-creepy guy had checkerboard shoe strings and a pair of cords on..."

Please respond ASAP, I would like to C U again...

in the line at the post office 23111 - m4w (mechanicsville) 41yr

2009-11-09T12:18:59-05:00

you had a blue shirt no wedding ring you are a lovly woman

RE: Helen's Bartender

2009-11-09T12:08:46-05:00

" I would snatch it right back and spit in the bitch's face."

Well you sound like a real winner!

Re: Helens Bartender

2009-11-09T11:43:33-05:00

You know what?
I'm never rude enough to order a drink that close to closing time, because I've worked at a bar before and I know that when 2 o'clock rolls around, you're ready to clean up and get everyone out so you can go home at a decent hour. Most bartenders at all the places I've been to will remind you to finish up and get the hell out when Last Call happens.
I've been to Helens before and I've never had a drink snatched out of my hand, but I have seen it happen to other people. I wish someone would snatch away a drink that I paid for and generously tipped for. I would snatch it right back and spit in the bitch's face. I'm sorry, but that's just not the way you treat customers who are paying for your service and tipping you enough to pay your bills. This is one reason why I won't be returning to Helens....to avoid conflict. I work just as hard as any bartender for my money and I will spend it, enjoying EVERY LAST BIT of my drink.

You said all this dumb shit:
You don't mention what time she was taking full drinks because after they call last call and it hits 2 am, they take your fucking drink no matter how full it is, it's the law. Every time I've been to Helen's, they don't take your drink until 2. Don't order a drink at last call if you're not going to drink it all before 2. Also, there was a reason she probably slapped that guy in the face, were you close enough to hear why? Have you ever bartended before? Helen's is a notorious douche bag hangout (that's why you were there) and it's a damn hard job. Drunk idiots will say and do the dumbest things and they deserve to get slapped in the face sometimes. Also if you are talking about who I think you're talking about, then she's the owner's daughter and she isn't going anywhere.

"give susan my best" - m4m (NYD) 30yr

2009-11-09T10:27:56-05:00

I have no idea who Susan is...but...I played along anyway...we chit chatted at the bar briefly when I walked by...you had on a white shirt and tie. I figured you had me mistaken for someone else, or perhaps you were making idle convo to get my attention...at any rate you are hot as hell.

sexy blonde black car at wa wa - m4w (colonial heights) 36yr

2009-11-09T10:27:18-05:00

i gave u change in line and we looked at each other alot shouda talked to u then wanted to tell u ur sexy as hell and i hope we run in to each other again

RE: Helen's bartender (Richmond)

2009-11-09T09:01:17-05:00

You don't mention what time she was taking full drinks because after they call last call and it hits 2 am, they take your fucking drink no matter how full it is, it's the law. Every time I've been to Helen's, they don't take your drink until 2. Don't order a drink at last call if you're not going to drink it all before 2. Also, there was a reason she probably slapped that guy in the face, were you close enough to hear why? Have you ever bartended before? Helen's is a notorious douche bag hangout (that's why you were there) and it's a damn hard job. Drunk idiots will say and do the dumbest things and they deserve to get slapped in the face sometimes. Also if you are talking about who I think you're talking about, then she's the owner's daughter and she isn't going anywhere.

Looking for Pixie from Oysterfest - m4w (Urbanna) 42yr

2009-11-09T08:29:30-05:00

Posting here is a long shot at best, but your eyes and smile captured my imagination and our brief conversations sparked my desire. If I had the chance to discreetly pull you aside I could show you that you need to stop playing with boys and let me show you how a mature and experienced man can treat and tame such an enchantingly wild woman. Beth Page campground was far too crowded, but I'd love the chance to meet you again and share another drink of honey more privately.

Kroger - m4m (Kroger on Lombardy) 23yr

2009-11-09T01:14:15-05:00

Not sure if this works. I saw you first near the wine, then in the frozen section, and once more in the parking lot, all around 6-6:30 Sunday night. You were middle aged in a cute pinkish sweater. If you are out there, please send a picture so I know its you. Hope to hear from you!

Nadine the ballet usher from First Friday - m4w

2009-11-09T00:50:55-05:00

I'm pretty certain your name is Nadine, you mentioned being a dancer and having worked as an usher that evening. I was with a friend and we discussed her work and anger in the creation process. Even though we only spoke very briefly I have found myself to have been very struck by the moment and you. You looked back as you exited the gallery, it seemed you may have felt a connection as well?
You also mentioned being a fan of Merlot, perhaps we could have a glass together sometime?

RE: EJM - w4m (Turned around)

2009-11-09T00:26:29-05:00

Drop a clue?..it'll help to steer cupid's arrow.

Waffle House girl... - m4w (Broad St) 26yr

2009-11-08T23:49:58-05:00

You were with one of your girl friends at Waffle house on Broad st., and i was there with few of my friends... we looked at each other few times, but I couldn't say anything there...if you see this, I just wanted to tell that you have the most beautiful eyes and the cutest face on this planet... I really hope you read this...

we spoke briefly.. - m4m (shortpump mall)

2009-11-08T22:58:56-05:00

in macy's. you were asian, hope to see you there again.

Nose bleed seats of Avenue Q - w4m (Center Stage) 22yr

2009-11-08T22:55:10-05:00

You were in the nose bleed seats at center stage during the Saturday night performance of Avenue Q. You have brown hair that's kind of curly and a killer smile. You had a guy friend with you. We talked for a bit. I was hoping we could hang out sometime. You're super cute. <3

Cafe Gutenberg - lunch - w4m 20yr

2009-11-08T21:57:09-05:00

never did this before, but my friend convinced me its a 'cute' idea..

you were wearing a yellow shirt and a red hat sitting with a few friends at around 1pm today. you definitely caught my eye a couple of times and i think i had seen you around before? I was the brunette wearing a purple shirt and a black sweater standing with a friend near the door.
just wanted to let you know you're really cute and wish we could have talked :) you should hit me up if you see this

Girls in a yellow car(hatchback? - m4w (rt. 10 and Old Centralia Rd.) 19yr

2009-11-08T21:42:55-05:00

So i was riding in my green hatchback down Rt. 10 in Chesterfield today headed to my friends house behind Thomas Dale High School. I turned right down Old Centralia Rd. and there I saw you and your friend looking amazing in the front seat. You gave me the peace sign and kept looking at me as I passed. I thought you looked really cute and i tried to go back and see if I could get your number at the next light, but by the time i turned around and waited for a large stream of traffic, it was too late to catch you up and you were forever gone. I hope you'll see this and reply via email, maybe we can grab a drink or catch a movie sometime.

OBG_rock - w4m (World Wide Web) 24yr

2009-11-08T21:14:19-05:00

Your picture came up on some old match.com email. Its the first time I have looked at a profile in a long time. I am so not paying that money, but maybe you will find this on here. I like your style. And I love shoes. Hope to hear from you...

Hot bartender at the Village tonight - m4m (The Village (fan)) 22yr

2009-11-08T21:07:27-05:00

You were the bartender tonight at the village. I was there with some friends from about 7:30-8:30 sitting at one of the first booths after the bar. Bring It On was playing on the TV and I was watching it. We made eye contact a couple times. You're extremely good looking. I was wearing a white shirt. If you read this and you're at all interested, let me know what color hat I was wearing. Would love to grab coffee or a drink sometime.

Hit me up.

girl locking up her bike on cary st - m4w (cary st) 24yr

2009-11-08T21:04:50-05:00

this was around 8. you were locking up your bike. i was walking down the sidewalk. i was looking in the stores as i was walking then turn to look straight again and saw you as you were turning your head to look down at what you were doing and you were smiling. since i didn't see you look at me since my head was turned i didn't know if maybe you were smiling at me since no one else was around?

Re: Target footie PJs - w4m 20yr

2009-11-08T20:27:10-05:00

more details please. Wearing what and that kinda thing.

Oyster Festival - w4m (Crenshaw) 23yr

2009-11-08T19:59:36-05:00

I've seen you around Richmond, and then I saw you again at the Oyster Festival in Urbanna. You had a green bike and a camper at BethPage.You are gorgeous, and I'd really love to eat fair food together sometime.. naked.

question for the decent females - m4w (around) 36yr

2009-11-08T19:56:04-05:00

I'm stumped by how you gals can tell me ( 3 times now ) that your feelings for me are too strong. What exactly does that mean ? I'm never told this at the time of the split, but years later when talking things over. 3 times and I suspect the 4th happened earlier this year. I am constantly told what a great guy I am, how wonderful a person I am, how I have no reason to be single but I keep having this same experience. I truely don't think it is an excuse, as the first girl I heard this from was a 7 year relationship and another was a 2 year long . In the 7 years, She would break up with me every 2-3 months, and get back together a month later. In the end whenI brought this up, she says she was scared of the feelings she had for me, so she would break up, then she couldn't stand being without me so she wanted to get back together. I have had other girls ( not that there are that many ) tell me they have a hard time dealing with their feelings for me. WTF ?? If they feel so strongly for me why do they push me away ? I'm not ugly, I have been encouraged to model, look and act 25 ( in the good ways ), I am very active ( sportswise ) so I am not out of shape. I own my own business, so I'm not an unemployed loser, I don't lie, cheat or steal. I'm generally pretty nice to people, even if I don't like them. I tend to be a bit of a goof ball and have a good sense of humor ( smart ass ). I can't stand sitting around playing video games, football bores me by the first half, I'm not much of a drinker anymore, I do not fuck around at all, even when I am single ( which seems to be eternally ). Most weekends I end up going somewhere by myself, or riding my bike somewhere in town bymyself, or just working. All in all I have been told I am the perfect guy. Do I have issues ? Sure I do,who doesn't? But judging by my now former friends, and others I associate with, mine are pretty damned minor. I have been told by girls that they wish their boyfriend, husband etc. were more like me. Why is it then that I am still single ? No I'm not the most outgoing guy, and I'm pretty shy at first, but what happend to fate ? I have tried the dating sites to no avail. They tend to be a joke. I'm just fed up with not being able to find an attractive, intelligent, healthy, NORMAL, SANE, active, funloving, goofball, down to earth girl. Maybe I'm just meant to be single. Maybe it's karma fucking with me. I have always said the only fears I have are growing old, being incapacitated, and being alone. At least I'm not incapacitated.......yet.......................................................fuck to you karma

I look forward to your feminine insight

RE: You're Perfect!

2009-11-08T18:16:24-05:00

yeah, um, bad idea. you've already gone too far.

Friday night at nations - m4m (Richmond) 34yr

2009-11-08T17:59:39-05:00

Scottie, you introduced yourself just as we were leaving, and stupid me didn't get your number! Drop me a line if you see this!

Gas Station on Lauderdale next to the Foodlion - m4w (Lauderdale Dr) 29yr

2009-11-08T17:31:21-05:00

1 in a million. You were filling you're car with oil, wearing a dress and looking absolutely beautiful. Sure I will never see you again unfortunately. I was the guy driving the RX-8 and should have asked if you needed help. Hope I find you again!!!

No, make that NEED to find you!!!

RE: The girl taking full drinks at Helens - w4m (Richmond) 22yr

2009-11-08T17:27:08-05:00

Just wanted to say- I think you are speaking of the same person I am thinking it is and if so, that post was hilarious because it is so true, she is a mega bitch. Karma will eat her alive.

EJM - w4m

2009-11-08T17:11:16-05:00

I love you.

I want to tell you, but I'm too afraid.

Auburn/reddish, straight long brown hair in front row at Fri. Talk - m4w (Richmond) 48yr

2009-11-08T17:05:23-05:00

You were in the front row, roughly in the middle. I successfully tried not to pay attention to you in order to avoid staring or losing my train of thought, and fumbling my talk. Just in case you read these (I don't, but I did today, just hoping!).. If you recognize this, please reply...

you revived my belief that men CAN dance - w4m (the bottom)

2009-11-08T16:53:46-05:00

amazing night dancing with you....perhaps we should do it again?

If you ever see this - w4w (rva)

2009-11-08T16:52:41-05:00

You will probably never see this, but know that you have my heart and soul and you have had since the day we met. We let something slip away that could have lasted an eternity, but I want you to know that even though we don't see each other and we don't talk and we have moved on you are still in my heart, I still love you, I am still in love with you, and I think about you all the time, and I miss you more than words can possibly describe. I hope you are happy and are doing well..

biking beauty - m4w

2009-11-08T15:31:31-05:00

You were cycling east on Patterson this afternoon around 1:45. You were wearing a turquoise top, black cycling pants, and had your road bike moving smoothly. I was driving and stopped behind you at the light at Three Chopt and Patterson. When you wove through the cross-traffic at the intersection your body movement was powerful, sexy, and sensuous. It inspired me to go get on my bike and take a ride. If you'd ever like company on a ride, let me know. Thank you for making my day. :)

Golds Gym - m4m (Willow)

2009-11-08T15:16:28-05:00

Enjoyed sweating a bit with you today. Would have like to continue but it was just too hot. :)

did any 1 go to see avenue Q last night - m4m (southside)

2009-11-08T15:11:43-05:00

hot guy cowboy boots and leather pants we complimented each other if you know him or saw him contact me please

Re: A moment at 7/11 Cary town - m4w - 23 (Cary Town)

2009-11-08T14:36:20-05:00

What was I wearing?

Target footie pjs - w4m (Richmond) 18yr

2009-11-08T13:14:22-05:00

I was in Target looking at footie pj's and you walked by and smiled at me. i think you're really cute. we should hang out some time if you ever see this.

Golds Gym - m4w (Fan) 31yr

2009-11-08T12:55:10-05:00

I see you at Golds in the Fan sometimes during the middle of the day. You are tall, blonde, usually doing cardio. Me, I'm watching you from afar wondering who you are and what you do. Maybe one afternoon we can have a different kind of workout?

You're Perfect! - m4w (RVA) 23yr

2009-11-08T12:25:56-05:00

for me.... I really really like you but you're kinda talking to my friend. Youre everything ive ever wanted in a girlfriend and it sucks that youre engaged. I could see us having a great future and I haven't felt this way for a long long time. If only i could tell you all this without any hostility between friends... I really do like you and i think you think the same. Lets make this happen!!!

A moment at 7/11 Cary town - m4w (Cary Town) 23yr

2009-11-08T12:17:03-05:00

We had a moment last night at 7/11. i was wearing a plad shirt in a jeep. Your curly hair auburn??

Europa Tall Amy - m4w (DowntownRVA)

2009-11-08T10:35:54-05:00

You were gorgeous, I was goofy. You said you couldnt dance and Ishould nothavebeen dancing. We were both tall. I promised to take you on a date. I really dislike my blackberry now.

Looking for the Hot tanned bus boy at O'Charleys on Hull Street - m4m ((SS)) 38yr

2009-11-08T10:14:59-05:00

I saw this sexy ass tanned bus boy at O'Charleys last nite. He was very friendly but I am not sure if he gets down. Would love to meat up with his short sexy ass. Please give him the message.

diversity thrift girl - m4w (RVA) 23yr

2009-11-08T08:41:00-05:00

You had a red flower in your hair, sold me a shirt for a dollar Saturday morning, gave me a second glance and smiled. I was still half asleep so maybe I read it wrong, maybe your customer service skills are just really awesome, either way, you have a beautiful smile and we should hang out sometime.

colonial harley Saturday 1pm - w4m (chester) 40yr

2009-11-08T07:33:52-05:00

You are tall, darkish red hair, wearing a jacket with a huge red and white "Indian" patch on the back. You were in the concrete staging area by the petting zoo, and walking with a friend. I never spoke to you but wanted to. If you are single please reply.

Sickles/Schomo Wedding - w4m (Short Pump)

2009-11-08T05:27:26-05:00

Not sure if you live in Richmond or will see this or not. You were at the post-rehearsal dinner held at the hotel I work out. You were outside as I was carrying dishes into the employee area. You were wearing a light blue shirt and from the small conversation we had you seemed really nice and cute.

You said you thought I was locking you out at first when I was coming from the banquet area.

If you decide to email me tell me why you were outside.

The Vault. . . Sat night - w4m (Vault/Bank) 23yr

2009-11-08T02:27:33-05:00

I think I missed a connection with the VAULT as it is supposed to be. U of R homecoming officially sucks... and made the Vault SUCK. I don't think that the word even does justice to how pathetic the Vault was tonight.

Seriously.
While I saw a bunch of spoiled pricks who can't dance worth anything and had plenty of them step on my feet... I DID miss a connection with anything comparable to a good night out.

Thank you U of R for ruining the Vault.

food lion - m4m (chesterfield)

2009-11-07T22:38:54-05:00

you were hot. food lion lucks lane

Girl at Parham ABC Store - m4w (west end) 35yr

2009-11-07T21:36:30-05:00

girl with short blonde hair in blue shorts and yellow flip flops at the abc store.....you looked amazing....loved those legs...wished i woulda said hello

Girl working the counter at Cork&Keg - m4w (Henrico) 22yr

2009-11-07T21:27:31-05:00

Your eyes are dazzling.

I went in hoping that you would have a special beer of mine, but my hopes were soon replaced by how I felt when I looked in your eyes.

If by chance your warehouse has that particular beer I requested, I'd like to share it with you and get to know you. I find you beautiful. Even if they don't stock that beer, let me take you out to dinner? Lunch?

You looked so cute in that hat.

Re: All kinds of clumsy - w4m

2009-11-07T20:57:20-05:00

more details please?

S.M.V.....Something you should know. (Near Richmond)

2009-11-07T20:20:43-05:00

My family and I haven�t seen or heard from you for over ten years now but Dad talked about you often. He loved you so much and I don�t understand why you didn�t call him after I left you a message at your work phone telling you he was dying. Dad thought the nurse thanking care of him was you and he would thank you for being there helping him just before he passed. I never told him it wasn�t you, he was happy thinking you were there. I was with him, holding his hand when the very sad time came. I know he is in heaven now with no pain and is happy.

R.

RE: K.K. - m4w

2009-11-07T20:12:34-05:00

Well, if you are married, then you are still in the running to be the KK I'm referring to...

RE: Amy......PLEASE..... - m4w (Chester)

2009-11-07T19:22:44-05:00

I'm afraid I did break her heart. She did nothing wrong.
All she ever did was be kind and loving towards me.
We were engaged and I blew it with my anger
and drinking.
I'd give anything in the world if she'd forgive me.
I've loved her for years and I've always wanted to make it up to her.

re: the 411 on the WWC

2009-11-07T19:12:18-05:00

What is this sexy crap?! They are a bunch of kids whose wealthy parents own businesses in the fan. They just walk around the fan like a gaggle of teens (which they are).

RE: Been two years - w4m

2009-11-07T19:08:52-05:00

What is the first name of the person you are looking for?

re: the 411 on the WWC (Richmond-Everywhere)

2009-11-07T18:40:36-05:00

you fuck the same people, you end up with the same STDs
have fun y'all!